Day 12 ~ Make a Food Bryce Can Try

by Carrie Wells, Ed.D.
Day 12 was 'Make a Food Bryce Can Try' and it happened to be fajita night at my sister's house. I'm a big fan of waiting until about 6 months to feed your child solid foods, but I am also a fan of encouraging children to explore. When we eat, Bryce basically attacks me to try to get at my food. He is so determined to try everything, that I have to put my plate practically on the other side of the table so he can't grab it. He is so interested in food!

So, I decided at 5 1/2 months, I'd let him try some super-mushy ripe avocado. I cubed it and put it on a plate, and let him mush it with his hands. If he wanted to play with it, he could. If he wanted to taste it, he could. I'm definitely not ready to feed him meals, but I don't mind him exploring the world around him, using all of his senses. Even when it's time to start eating 'meals,' I plan to just put soft finger foods on a surface for him to explore and taste. His main source of nutrients for the first year will be breastmilk, but I like that he has an interest in food. Definitely mommy's little guy!

How Lydia Changed My Sister's Life

My sister Jamie is 3 1/2 years younger than me. We live about 15 minutes away from each other and probably hang out an average of twice a week. She got married a little over a year ago to one of my husband's oldest friends who happens to have two beautiful girls, ages 7 and 9, making her a stepmother. Unfortunately, we live in Florida and the girls live in Ohio, so we only get to see them a few times a year. She sent me the following email a few days ago, and I asked if I could share it with my readers...

I was driving today, and as I often do, I thought about the girls and how much I miss them. I cried a little, as I've been doing the past year upon confirmation that the girls are never moving... And then I thought about Lydia and how just going 3 days without seeing her makes me wanna cry.

With the girls, I never ever thought I'd be able to love any child as much as them. They have grown up with me. They're a huge part of what makes me who I am. But Lydia has taught me that there's a lot of love in my heart...more than I knew. I've fallen in love with her just as much as I did for the girls.

This is what was holding me back, truly, so long from avoiding the idea of kids. That's why I said I don't want babies. I was afraid I'd have a baby and torment it to be just like the girls (especially if it was a girl...kind of why I want a boy real bad). But I don't feel that way anymore. Lydia's got her own agenda. And one day maybe I'll have a baby with its own agenda too. That's what Lydia has taught me. I will miss her terribly this weekend when I go out of town, but I will bring her back a present :)

*This email definitely brought a tear to my eye!! What has the birth of your baby taught your family? Has anyone changed? Has it inspired anyone else in your family to have a baby?

Lydia and her aunt Jamie at the Girl's Strawberry Patch a few weekends ago :-)

Spring, Swimsuits, & Safety

Welcome to Spring!


When Lydia was 4 months old, we began baby swimming classes. We take classes at U.S. Swim Academy in Coral Springs, FL. Its a mommy and me format, where one parent accompanies his/her child in the water. Each session is 30 minutes, with about 5 students per class. We teach the babies different skills through music and movement. While it's fun to meet other mothers, get in the water, and bond with our children, what is most important is to learn some basic swimming skills. They work on floating on their backs, falling into the water and swimming back to the wall, blowing bubbles, holding their breath, and so many other important concepts. Lydia took to the water so quickly because I started so young. She's very comfortable and calm, which I think helps her to learn. Here's a video of me and Lydia at swim that I'd like to share. This activity teaches the children that if they fall in, they should immediately turn around and cling to the wall.





As a special education teacher working primarily with children who have moderate to severe disabilities, I do have some experience with children who are near-drown victims. Between that and attending swim lessons, you realize how scary drowning can be, especially living in a state like Florida. Even if you don't have a pool or you don't live on the water, you never know what can happen at a friend, family member, or neighbor's home in just a few short minutes of your child being unsupervised. I decided to look up a few drowning statistics released by the Center for Disease Control:

• 1 in 4 fatal drowning accidents involve children under 14.
• In 2005, of all children 1 to 4 years old, almost 30% died from drowning. Fatal drowning remains the second-leading cause of unintentional injury-related death for children ages 1 to 14 years.
• For every child that dies, another 4 are treated in emergency rooms for submersion-related accidents, some of which cause permanent brain damage.
• From 2005 to 2007, there was an average of 283 fatal drownings for children 5 and under per year. An additional 2,100 were treated in the emergency room for submersion-related injuries.
• Children under 1 year most often drown in bathtubs, buckets, or toilets. Among children ages 1 to 4 years, most drownings occur in residential swimming pools. Most young children who drowned in pools were last seen in the home, had been out of sight less than 5 minutes, and were in the care of one or both parents at the time.

Some safety suggestions made by the Center for Disease Control include:

• Always assign a designated adult to watch children in swimming pools. Be sure to avoid engaging in distracting activities (reading, talking on the phone, etc.) while watching children.
• Install a fence at least 4 ft high around all sides of your swimming pool.
• Remove all toys from the pool after swimming so children are not tempted to retrieve toys at a later time.

My personal belief is that once you think a child can swim well, randomly throw him/her in the pool fully-clothed to make sure the child can swim to the edge and get out of the pool. That way you know your child is really safe.


Enjoy spring with your family, whether it's still snowing where you live or warm and sunny like it is by me!